Showing posts with label Editorial. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Editorial. Show all posts

Thursday, July 4, 2013

An Independence Day message

In 1776 John Adams wrote a letter predicting that July 2nd would be “the most memorable epoch in the history of America” and would be celebrated "forevermore"

When John Adams wrote a letter to friends in 1776 he predicted that the adoption of the Declaration of Independence would inspire Americans forever to celebrate the anniversary of the event. 
Yes, for more than 200 years Americans have celebrated with pomp and parades, shows, games, bonfires, barbecue's and family gatherings in great anniversary festivals. But for how many years will this be true.
Who can imagine anyone would ever want to  undo what the founders have  done? 
John Adams would  never have imagined that the day would come when he made that prediction that Americans would celebrate the day forever more.
In the last years the good the Founders have achieved has been diminished, distorted and their good names smeared by those who would change their image from visionaries to racists.  They are blamed for all the problems of the world today.  In the schools the youth are being trained to be ashamed of  America.
Schools across America are reprimanding students for displaying the American Flag in an effort not to offend foreign students, but these foreign students can display the flags of their country.   Students have been reprimanded for chanting "USA!!  USA!!"  because it is considered "incendiary language.  These same students can turn on the TV and watch the President of the United States traveling to foreign nations and apologizing for the mistakes America, as a nation, has made. 

This year this administration has cancelled July 4th celebrations on several military bases due to alleged ‘sequester’ cuts.   The Administration denies our men and women in uniform the chance to celebrate, in the traditional manner,  the very freedoms they secure for millions of Americans.
Can this be anything but intentional?  Are they not making every effort to destroy the patriotism that has been woven into the very fabric of this country?  


What is happening in this country is a disgrace, but it is happening because WE are allowing it.  WE have lost the spirit to defend our freedoms that the founding fathers had as they rose up against a government that refused to listen to the people. 

I hope you enjoyed your freedom to celebrate this year, but unless there are changes,  John Adams' prediction of Americans celebrating "forevermore" may be proved false in the next few years.


Friday, June 28, 2013

Editorial,




Television personality Paula Dean was recently "called out" for comment's she had made 30 or so years ago.  A racial slur, according to some. My opinion, slow news day?, find something to take the attention away from the "real" news, how did this become news??
 Okay, so it started me thinking.  I know, it is dangerous when I start thinking but all too often it happens. 
 If you want my opinion,( and if you don't, now is the time to stop reading,) what she said or even who she was that long ago is of no matter.  What matters is who she is now and what she is doing now.  She spoke up recognizing that what she said might have been hurtful and now she realizes that and showed remorse for whatever harm she might have done. So let it go!!! 
My goodness, where is there one among us who hasn't said hurtful, harmful words, either intentionally or inadvertently?   We have all hurt someone else, at some time with poorly thought out statements.  Why does this matter with Paula Dean deserve another minute of attention?
My beautiful daughter came home in tears one day more than thirty years ago because another girl in her class made fun of her beautiful long blonde curls.  Were those taunts and that teasing less hurtful because they were not race based?  I don't think so.  A child can be teased because he/she is smaller/larger than other children in the class, or she/he is too "fat"/skinny, has asthma, diabetes or other physical condition, has physical scars, is shy, or whatever.  There are hundreds of "differences" for which a person can be "put down" other than race. Differences that are no more controllable than the color of ones skin. There are always those who think they can build up themselves by pulling others down.
I can do nothing about how others act, how or who they "tease", "torment" or disrespect.  What I can do is help those that I interact with to understand that such actions and words tell me about the person who is speaking, not about the person of whom they speak.  
A teacher who would tell a child "you are stupid, you will never amount to anything"  is letting us know, what kind of a teacher he/she is.  The statement reflects not on the student but on the teacher.
When we can't stop those who would behave this way from doing what they will  we need to try to focus an equal amount of energy on teaching that while we can't control "the other person"  we can control our reaction to "the other person".  
Years ago we were taught a little poem, "sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me."   Okay, we all know words do hurt, but if we learn to process those words properly we can soften their impact.  If we tell ourselves we will not let them hurt us we CAN make it so.  We can make that choice if we are determined.  Maybe we will have to "fake it til we make it" but we can do that.  And it will not be easy, but perhaps easier than the alternative, allowing them to damage us with their words.

 If Paula Dean or anyone else uses the N word, or any other offensive word, NO ONE, needs to take it personally  No one HAS to take offence.  That is their choice!! 

Tuesday, March 12, 2013

Editorial

Freedom through Strength.

A free people will be prosperous.  But prosperity invariably attracts greediness from predators.  The Founding Fathers felt gratitude to God for the United States, therefore, they felt a responsibility to defend it.  They knew the country could be forever preserved if it remained a virtuous and adequately armed nation. That is why they made sure the second amendment was part of the constitution.
Benjamin Franklin exclaimed, "One sword often keeps another in its scabbard."
 However, the founders did not intend for the country to go to war for any reason but self-defense.  Thomas Paine wrote,  "Not all the treasure in the world could have induced me to support an offensive war, for I think it murder, but if a thief breaks into my house . . . am I to suffer it?"
The Founders passed on to their posterity a policy of peace through strength.  They were peace loving, they were not pacifists.
Just as it was then that Freedom and unalienable rights had to be defended it remains today, our freedom and unalienable rights must be defended.
  The Founders were familiar with these words which had been written 400 years earlier by Scots in their own Declaration after the Wars of Independence:  "It is in truth not for glory, nor riches, nor honors that we are fighting, but for freedom for that alone, which no honest man gives up but with life itself."
We need to stand together now and defend our country and our freedom and our second amendment rights to protect ourselves.   

Monday, January 7, 2013

Guns and Cars


A commentary by R. Tone Kister

I am just stupefied by the absolute refusal of the media to address the issues pertinent to the runaway shootings occurring in this country in recent years.  I have watched all different channels for many years and the only thing the collective mind set can discuss is the tool of the destruction.
Approximately eighty persons die by gunshot in America in a single day.  The most important question everyone seems to ask is  “ Why don’t we control guns more?”  With many asking “Why don’t we just get rid of all of them:”   The only thing they are designed to do is kill whatever they are pointed at.

Would it surprise anyone to discover, as I did, that approximately 115 persons die by the automobile every single day in America?  Why does no one even hint at abolishing that tool of destruction, the motor vehicle.
How often do we hear, “guns don’t kill, people do”?  And those people are ridiculed as ignoramuses!  Yet has anyone ever considered, let alone said out loud, “vehicles don’t kill, people do?  And if anyone did have the audacity to speak such a line would anyone actually consider them ridiculous?  They would?  Why?  Because it’s such a stupid thing to say or because the idea of removing motor vehicles from our society is a stupid idea?  After all, if the sole idea of removing the tool of destruction will solve the problem, then saving 115 people a day is far more productive than a mere 80.  How many innocent lives could we save if we would but remove all motor vehicles . . . .?

Folks, the evil is not in the motor vehicle or in the gun!
 Why are we not, collectively, looking back fifty or sixty years and determining what  is different now than it was then.  Certainly not the tools.  We had guns and cars and people then too.

 When I was in high school, we took .22 ‘s, guns and bullets to school.  We kept them at our desks in class, because between third and fourth period, we with guns and ammo, collectively went to the basement of the police station and shot competitively, paper targets as a class project.  We were even graded on this event.  No one even considered shooting one another.  So what changed?  The school, the people, the guns and the ammunition, or something else?  Something absolutely no one now will even considering discussing.

If the guns then were designed to kill whatever they were pointed at just as they are now, but were seldom used for that, what changed the people?  And if it is the people, what caused them to change” and should not we be addressing that issue if we ever hope to change back to the days when the mere sight of a gun in the back window of a pickup did not inflict terror and horror in our hearts.  The sight of a pickup and gun in the fifties and sixties was as common as headlight, and just as feared as headlights.
The world has gone mad, not the tools.  We need to be addressing that, not wasting our time chasing smoke and mirrors.  Think about it seriously!  It doesn’t make a particle of sense to look at guns as the villain anymore that it does to look at cars as the source of death and destruction of our innocent children and family and friends.  We do need to look at ourselves and whether we have allowed our morals to deteriorate to such a point that all evil abounds unabated.  We must not dwell in denial to the point of being impotent because to do so will allow the evil to increase exponentially until we’ve passed the tipping point and resistance is futile.
Guns and cars are not inherently evil or good.  They are simply tools to be used or guided.  People are not inherently evil or good, but they can be and are, guided by good or evil.  And people have the power to choose the evil or the good guides to follow.
We absolutely have to look at the quality of the guides we choose, and if we have collectively chosen evil guides, because like the story of the frog and hot water, we have been acclimated, can we be expected to do good things.
We can and will, if we but wake-up and see the light and say, “enough is enough”  The moral decay is destroying us and America and I am no longer going to be a part of it.”

Each of us alone, will be quite ineffectual but if each of us commit to changing ourselves and only ourselves to the moral values of sixty years ago . .  .  one morning we will wake-up to find we have collectively made quite a difference with hardly any effort at all.

Thursday, September 20, 2012

Editorial: Romney a Doer of Good Deeds

I have heard it said, although it is not true,  that Mormons don't believe in Jesus Christ as their Savior because they believe they can get to heaven by doing good works, because so many of them are known for doing good works, They do the good works because they believe Christ when he says What you do for the least of these your brethern you have done for me.
 But then I contrast Mitt Romney, a Mormon, who believes in good works  with Barack Obama who sympathizes with the Jhadist Muslims that believe in killing anyone who they perceive as being disrespectful to their prophet Mohammad. 
Who would you rather have running the country, a Mormon who believes in doing good works or a Muslim sympathiser that would apologize to those who kill Americans. 
Muslim extremists  kill an ambassador because  someone else may have been disrespecting  their prophet.  The government sends out a apology, denounces the disrespect, speaks out about how terrible it is.  It is horrible to disrespect anothers religion says our secretary of State.
Yet on Broadway a play is running called The Book of Mormon that completely disrespects Mormons and their religion and I haven't heard of a single politician   (republican or democrat)denouncing it.  It's called freedom of speech.   I guess it's only wrong to disrespect another religion if they are crazy militants and will kill someone over it.  Politicians  pay hundreds of dollars for tickets to The Book Of Mormon play and attend and laugh.   Double standard or what! 
And what do the Mormons do about it, turn the other cheek, buy advertising in the playbill, "you've seen the play, now read the Book.or  The Book is always better. 

Speaking of Good works here a a few examples of what Mitt Romney has done.  You might keep in mind that in order to claim a charitable deduction on a tax form it has to be given to a IRS approved charity, any money given to individuals  for house payments, medical expenses or school tuition or any other such thing wouldn't appear listed in Romney's charitable contributions.   He gets no credit for that kind of charity. 
Mitt Romney gives not only his money but he gives his time and has taught his children to do the same. 
 There are many examples:
One cold December day in the early 1980s, Mitt Romney loaded up his Gran Torino with firewood and brought it to the home of a single mother whose heat had been shut off just days before Christmas.



Years after a business partner died unexpectedly, Romney helped the man’s surviving daughter go to medical school with loans for tuition – loans he forgave when she graduated.
And in 1997, when a fellow church member’s teenage son fell seriously ill, Romney sprinted to the hospital in the dead of night, where he kept vigil with his terrified parents.
Reed Fisher tells one such story, from 2007:
That story begins in the aftermath of the wildfires that engulfed San Diego in the fall of 2007, consuming dozens of homes in Reed Fisher’s neighborhood and nearly his own.
Fisher told CBS News the fire did burn a hole through a fence and caught the corner of his house.
While the house was being repaired Fisher got a call from a fellow Mormon, one of his son’s friends, offering help. It was Matt Romney, one of Mitt Romney’s five sons.
When asked what he said, Fisher said, “We would like to come help. We would like to come do something. And I said, ‘Matt, I wish you could, but almost everything has been cleaned up.’ But he pressed me, and I said, ‘Well, there is this one thing. And I don’t know if the insurance is going to cover it. There is a big tree stump in my front yard. They took the tree down, the tree was torched in the fire. But the stump was still there.’ So Matt insisted, he said, ‘We would like to bring a couple of guys and do some service at your house.’”
On that day, Fisher said he ran out to get some breakfast for the volunteers. Fisher said, “As I drove down to my house, there are four men working in the hole there, … and one of them is running for President of the United States of America.”
That man was Romney. When his son told him about the service project, he had asked if he could help.
“He had dirt under his fingernails,” Fisher said. “He was the first one down the hole. He’s the first one with the power saw. He’s doing the hardest work of any of us.”
The Nixon family tells another:
On April 4, 1995, four of Mark and Sheryl Nixon’s six children were driving back from a youth group meeting outside Boston when the driver of the minivan they were in lost control of the vehicle, which side-swiped a utility pole, struck two trees and flipped over.
The two front seat passengers – Rob and Reed Nixon, both high-school athletes – were severely injured in the wreck, their necks shattered, their bodies paralyzed. The boys underwent numerous surgeries, and the family quickly incurred hundreds of thousands of dollars of expenses, not only for the treatments but also for a special van and an addition to their house to accommodate their sons’ conditions.
New to the Boston area and without the means to pay for their sons’ care, the Nixons had few places to turn for help.
Enter Mitt Romney. On Christmas Eve, the Romney family showed up at the Nixon home unannounced, bearing large boxes full of gifts, including a stereo system, VCR and a generous check for Rob, Reed and the entire Nixon family.
“I knew [Romney's] schedule. I knew how busy he was. And their whole family came. He was actually teaching his boys, saying, ‘This is what we do. We do this as a family,’” Mark Nixon told Michael Kranish and Scott Helman in “The Real Romney.” “We’ve never forgotten it,” Sheryl added. “It stood out so much in our minds and helped us to want to be better parents, too.”
Romney later offered to pay for the boys’ college education and participated in a 5K road race and fundraiser for them. In subsequent years, he also made large financial gifts to a golf tournament in their honor.
Bryce Clark’s story is about reaching out with compassion and mentoring that helped him find sobriety out of addiction:
Late one summer night in 1993, distraught over his descent into alcoholism and drug use, Mr. Clark, then a 19-year-old college student, decided to confess that he had strayed from his Mormon faith. So he drove through this well-heeled Boston suburb to Mr. Romney’s secluded seven-bedroom home.
As the highest-ranking Mormon leader in Boston, Mr. Romney was responsible for determining whether Mr. Clark was spiritually fit for a mission, a rite of passage for young Mormon men. Mr. Clark had previously lied to him, insisting that he was eligible to go. But instead of condemnation that night, Mr. Clark said, Mr. Romney offered counsel that the younger man has clung to for years.
“He told me that, as human beings, our work isn’t measured by taking the sum of our good deeds and the sum of our bad deeds and seeing how things even out,” recalled Mr. Clark, now 37, sober and working as a filmmaker in Utah. “He said, ‘The only thing you need to think about is: Are you trying to improve, are you trying to do better? And if you are, then you’re a saint.’”
Another congregant was inspired by Romney’s example of service:
When Clayton Christensen, a Harvard business professor, and his wife, Christine, felt overwhelmed by church obligations, Mr. Romney showed up unexpectedly at the door. With three young children, Mr. Christensen was in charge of missionary work; his wife ran the relief society, ministering to Boston’s poor.
“He said, ‘I was just driving home from work, and I had a feeling that I needed to stop by and tell you that God loves you.’” Mr. Christensen was so moved, he recalled, that he wept.
Not all of Romney’s outreach efforts were as successful as the Washington Post’s account of Romney’s outreach to the Hatian community, the NY Times notes that “[w]hen young Southeast Asian converts began joining gangs, Mr. Romney set up small storefront churches in rough areas of town, with the hope of drawing them back,” but to no avail. But other communities felt the touch of Romney’s generosity and compassion, even if it meant bending the rules a little:
In the back office of his Weston, Mass., headquarters a quarter-­century ago, Mitt Romney, the chief Mormon authority in the Boston area, told the leader of his Spanish-speaking congregation that he would not directly pay for lawyers to help the growing number of illegal immigrants in his church. Then he carefully instructed his subordinate on how to circumvent the Mormon Church’s new hard line against such assistance and subsidize their legal aide.
“In those issues I cannot help you financially to pay for lawyers,” Romney said, according to Jose Francisco Anleu, a Guatemalan immigrant. “But what I can do is allow you to give them food assistance from the bishop’s warehouse,” a church welfare pantry. The money saved could be used to “pay lawyers.” He reminded Anleu that he could use church funds to cover rent, utilities and health care for his needy members. The money came from Anleu’s budget, but, as Anleu noted decades later, it was a budget sustained by Romney’s office.
…Marco Velasquez, an immigrant from Guatemala, said that under Romney the church held workshops to learn English and make gallons of inexpensive liquid soap. He also said that while he had papers, most of the other Latino members did not. Some came on three-month tourist visas and stayed. Many of the Central Americans, he said, simply walked across the border into Texas and made their way up to Boston.
“There is always a way to get papers – you had to pay extra,” said Velasquez, who added that he had a network in East Boston that could get people Social Security cards – “but they were not real.” A counselor in Cambridge before digging his shovel into the ground alongside Romney at the Boston branch’s groundbreaking, he said the church “had to know, but they didn’t say anything.” The same, he said, went for Romney. “He probably suspected that I was doing it.”
Sometimes, Romney’s generosity even came out of his propensity for gaffes:
Ken Smith, the former director of the New England Center for Homeless Veterans, also came on Beck’s show to discuss what Buzzfeed called “a cringe worthy moment in 1994.”
During the visit to the shelter, Smith said Romney first looked at the shelter’s books for about 45 minutes and then took a tour of the facility. At the end of the tour, Romney asked what Smith’s biggest problem was. Smith told him the shelter had problems paying for milk, and Romney replied, “Well Ken, maybe you can teach the vets to milk cows.”
The next day, Smith said, the newspapers were killing him for the remark, and Romney called Smith to apologize. The following day, the milkman showed up, offloaded his milk and gave Smith a bill that was half of its normal size. The same things happened for a month, two months, three months, and then for a full two years, Smith said. Finally, on the day the milkman was to retire, he told Smith that Romney had been paying for the milk.
“Romney’s generosity has helped tens of thousands of veterans who are homeless, who have been through this facility, with nourishment,” Smith said. “The milk cartons said the name of the milk company, it didn’t say, ‘donated by Mitt Romney.’”
(You can see video of the testimonials from Smith and some of the others here)
Romney is also the kind of many you could depend on to rise to the occasion in a crisis:
When the daughter of Bob Gay, a Bain colleague who once sat with Romney on the church’s high council, vanished, Romney shut down his Bain offices and arranged for a search party. After she was found shaken but safe in New Jersey, Romney boarded a bus to the airport with John Hoffmire, another Bain colleague who belonged to the church. Tears welled up in Romney’s eyes as he talked about his journey through New York’s rave clubs showing teenagers a picture of Gay’s daughter.
“I looked at this young man, and he had a bolt through his lip,” Hoffmire recalled Romney telling him. “But the strongest feeling came over me, and I just thought, ‘The heavenly father loved that young man just as much as he loved anybody.’”
Snopes has more, including Gay being quoted at the time – while his daughter was recovering in detox after “a massive dose of ecstasy,” saying “I’m not sure we would have gotten her back without” Romney.
Romney could even ride to the rescue when more dramatic personal action was required:
It’s a story that’s not often told. Mitt Romney at his family’s summer home in Wolfeboro, N.H. on the shores of Lake Winnipesaukee whisking into the night on a Jet Ski with two of his sons to rescue a drowning family of four, their two friends, and their dog.
On the weekend of July 4th, 2003, the Romney family was enjoying their picturesque summer home in New Hampshire on the shore of Lake Winnipesaukee…
“We heard a whole bunch of screaming,” Josh Romney told the Boston Herald. The Romney brothers and their father quickly raced to their Jet Skis. “We tore out of there and my dad hopped on the other Jet Ski and came out right after us.”
The screams came from Robert Morrissey, of New Jersey, his wife, their two adult children, two family friends, and the family dog.
The family…were sailing peacefully in their 20-foot long wooden boat until it began to take on water. Within three minutes it had begun to sink.
…’This happened really, really fast,” Mr. Morrissey said in 2003. When the boat started to sink, he dialed 911 on his cellphone as fast as he could. ”As I’m making the call, the boat is going down under my feet.”
Romney and his sons followed the shouts to find the group floating in the darkness treading water alongside their dog.
The Governor heaved the youngest two women onto his Jet Ski, a three-seater, and raced back to shore. The two Romney sons stayed with the rest of the family until the Governor returned to ferry the rest of the family, and their dog, safely to dry land.
You may choose to dislike Romney’s politics, his policies, his ham-handed speeches. But what a better country we would have if half the people attacking him now could compile half of the list above. Compared to Barack Obama, who had half his house paid for by a slumlord convicted of bribing politicians, I’d rather depend on Mitt Romney if I really needed a friend when the chips were down.
 

Friday, April 13, 2012

Paraskevidekatriaphobia

Paraskevidekatriaphobia —  a morbid, irrational fear of Friday the 13th.
Friday the 13th, 'the most widespread superstition!!
Is Friday the 13th a day  fraught with peril??
The sixth day of the week (Friday) and the number 13 both have foreboding reputations said to date from ancient times. It seems their inevitable conjunction from one to three times a year (there will be three such occurrences in 2012, exactly 13 weeks apart) sugests more misfortune than some credulous minds can bear.  Friday the 13th bringing bad luck may be the most widespread superstition in the United States today.  People may refuse to go to work on Friday the 13th; or  eat in restaurants; many wouldn't think of setting a wedding for Friday the 13th. 
 According to Dr. Donald Dossey, a psychotherapist specializing in the treatment of phobias (and coiner of the term paraskevidekatriaphobia,) the number of americans suffereing from this condition at the beginning of the 21st century may be as high as 21 million or about  8% of the population.
Exactly how old is difficult to say, because determining the origins of superstitions is an inexact science, at best. In fact, it's mostly guesswork.
But Please, Have A Good Day!